Getting kids through the move...smiling

How? Be sensitive to their feelings and concerns. Make little ones feel they're a part of the process throughout the move.

Children love a good adventure and will most likely embrace the moving process if they are involved in all aspects along the way. Here are some tips for getting your kids excited about your move.

Remember:

• Tell your children about the move as soon as possible, so they don't overhear the news by accident.
• Talk with them, sharing the details you think they'll understand -- ask about and listen to their reactions.
• Children of different ages respond differently to a move.
  For example:
  • Younger children tend to miss familiar people like a favorite teacher, as well as safe and secure environments like church, school or even their bedrooms; and
  • Older children, especially teenagers, tend to miss their friends and others in the community with whom they have relationships.
• Involve your children in all aspects of your relocation, if possible, including house hunting, planning the move, and taksks that are age appropriate.
• Have children help pack a special box with their most treasured possessions -- they can even decorate the outside of the box so they can quickly identify it in your new home.
• Ask for their input on decorating or arranging things in their new rooms.
• Encourage your children to take the time to say good-bye to friends and maintain ties by exchanging contact information.
• Make plans to continue your child's current activities (such as Scouts, sports, dance classes, etc.) in your new community -- continuity will make adjusting to a new location much easier.